Either way it feels like more than friendship, at least to you.And you just want to know what’s going on and what his deal is and if he has real feelings for you.You don’t want to come right out and ask because then you risk ruining the friendship and making things awkward.But you can’t quite shake the feeling that your romantic interest isn’t one-sided. Here are 21 of the biggest signs that he definitely feels something more: Take The Quiz: Does He Like You?A man who wants to be more than friends with a woman generally isn’t going to talk to her like one of the guys, because he doesn’t view her as one of the guys. Show through his body language—turning towards them, smiling a lot, frequent touching—that he’s interested in them?Watch especially how he talks with other women you know. If he’s not doing those types of things with other women, but you notice him doing them with you, it’s a clear sign he wants to be more than friends.I say “usually,” because contrary to what we hear all the time, men are not just interested in how a woman looks. Maybe he wants to be able to have a decent conversation with you, or maybe it’s important to him that you have the same sense of humor.If he’s serious-minded and looking for a relationship, then other things can matter a lot to him, too, big things like being of the same religion or having the same values. MORE: Signs He Doesn’t Like You We know that a guy who likes you as more than a friend will initiate contact regularly, and he’ll find any excuse to do it.
Or maybe he considers you a casual friend that he wants to keep.
Men show who they are and what they want with actions, not words.
If he has you in the friend zone, he might stay in touch and hang out with you, but he isn’t going to be the one initiating all the contact and get-togethers, and he won’t be doing it consistently. If he’s reaching out once a month, then sure, he doesn’t want to lose contact with you for some reason, but this isn’t a sign of romantic interest.
A man who is not trying to see you in person is not a man who is interested in you romantically A man who is interested in you romantically will not leave it up to you to call or text, he will initiate that contact regularly himself, and he will follow up by pursuing face-to-face meetings.
If you’re unsure how he feels about you, watch the way he is with others and compare that to the way he is around you.